When we first fall in love, start living together or get married we think that all that wonderful feeling between the two of us is going to last forever.
But, as life goes by and things change the wonderful feeling sometimes goes away and more often than not couples begin to pull apart.
In this day and time both men and women work and their jobs put stresses on both of them and this sometimes puts a strain on their once wonderful relationship.
Children are added to the relationship and often the man feels that the woman spends too much time on the children and doesn’t pay enough attention to him anymore.
When children are involved women often feel that they are having to work and take care of the children all by themselves and this puts a strain on the relationship with their husband as well.
Men don’t express their inner feelings very well and women begin to feel that their husband or partner is pulling away from the relationship and they don’t understand why.
Sometimes health issues, that may not even be known, affect someone’s energy level and makes them want to participate less in activities that were previously enjoyed together.
The truth be known it has been the woman in a relationship that has held marriages together over the ages. The old saying “behind every good man is a good woman” speaks volumes about what makes relationships everlasting.
These women, whether they realize it or not, have been applying the Paleolithic Principle to get their lasting relationship success. They have learned how to make their man stay in love with them by showing him that they are a woman who “gets it” when it comes to him and when he is with her he feels good about himself. This kind of feeling about himself makes him want to do anything he can to keep her happy and with him the rest of his life.
This means that not only is he happy, he is going to do everything he can to meet more of her needs.
It is not enough for either party to just say “I Love You”. The woman has to learn how a man is different, what makes him pull away or even cheat on the relationship.
Women don’t need to wait until she notices that he seems to be losing interest. She needs to apply the Paleolithic principle from the beginning, even while everything in their relationship seems to be on top of the world, so that he never really loses interest and pulls away from her and the kids.
Many women are able to learn how to make their relationship last from their mothers but, with so many broken homes today children don’t have an opportunity to get this knowledge from their parents.
As a woman, in a relationship with a man, whether you learn how to make your relationship everlasting from a book, a video or from another person it is something you need to pay attention too and learn how to keep your man from pulling away either now or later in life.
If you don’t have another person to learn from then take a look at this e-book entitled “Why Men Pull Away” and arm yourself with the knowledge and skill you need to have a happy and loving relationship for the rest of your life.